The below article is in no mean directed to anyone or for general public interest. This message is intended for one person. But the article is written in a way of public interest so that others which is the same type takes note. Which is clear cut. No girls were harmed during the producing and publishing of this article.
Lies and girls. Sounds more like a rhyme ,right? But today’s topic is not going to be about rhyme. We shall see the interconnection between the both. We should analyze what had not been done before. Although the similarities is not so much visible now,but by the end of the article, I believe you should be able to grasp what I wanted to convey.
Lying if not considered as a sin, is considered being not truthful and often liars has a very bad name in society. But then, everyone lies. Oh please, do not tell me that you’ve never lied before in history because that will be like telling the most illogical thing on earth. For an example, like telling I’m pregnant. That’s not possible,isn’t it? So,it sits together under the same umbrella with lying.
Talking generally about lies would take me ages .So ,specifically pin pointing my needles, I decided to poke relationship lies . Relationship which is carried on with a lot of lies had always been there. In fact, I believe every each one of us would have lied to our partners. Be it minor or major, I believe it carries the same impact.
Indian girls usually lies to their partner about one common thing. Let us see:
About whom she spoke to
You’re the boyfriend and as usual you will be calling her. Usually you will be calling her around midnight right? So, lets put this at 2 am. And when you call her,the call will be waiting.
GF : Hello
BF : Why your hp call waiting la?
GF : Talking to my course mate da.
BF : So long ah.
GF : Amada.Exam is near, so talking to her about tips da.
BF : Oh. Then bla,bla,bla.
The next week:
GF : Ya sayang
BF : Today also your call waiting so long. Who you talking to la?
GF : Talking to my course mate Lalitha da. She was having problems.
BF : Why do you have to interfere her problems?
GF : She is my best friend da. Anything also she will tell me.
BF : Oh, Then bla,bla,bla.
The next day :
BF : You’re pissing me off da. Everyday your call is waiting. And why is that?
GF : I already told you the reason da. Why you shouting now?
BF : Who you talking to today?
GF : It’s Selvi. She was asking about her assignment.
You girls will try to hide as much as possible if you’re talking to another guy. So,that your boyfriend would not doubt you. Which we hate so much.
Let us review it. Girls, we do not have lie detectors prebuild in our hormone system but this kind of lies is too lame. It’s too easy to detect. Why on earth you have to talk to another girl on the phone for so long and you’re claiming you’re talking about tips? What tips is that? Fingering? All right first round is acceptable. Another time when it happens wouldn’t you have some doubts? Why the fuck anyone would have to call you early in the morning to tell you her problems. Let’s put it yes to that too. Maybe it’s true. I know if I give this type of open statements without prove , the benefit of the doubt will fall to girls.
We do not care with who you’re talking to as long as you explain the truth to us. But as a matter of fact, we do not like you girls to be talking to anyone in the middle of the night. Be it about assignment, your friend’s boyfriend is not screwing her enough or she is asking tips for masturbating. No matter what reason you might give us, still a small doubt will always stay in our head on who you talking to. Deep inside,we’ll start to worry about the relationship.
The above story is not created .It was what truly happened to one of my working mate. This girl had been cheating with this guy for a long time and it took him some 6 months to find out this. She had coupled up with my collate and at the same time had spare time to let another guy finger her. True, relationship is build by trust. But the trust had been misused for so many of the wrong reasons until even the one speaking the truth is doubted. I would not give an exception to me on this. But, hey, we’re talking about girls and lies.
You might label me as being in a state of over possession and taking control of the girls life. You see, we wouldn’t bother to take care of your life if we’ve not fallen in love with you. We do not give a fuck unless it is written in our fate that we have to fuck you our whole life. Marriage I meant.
When guys cheat on girls, thousands of sad stories and hours of crying is done telling your story to create sympathy. But when guys are cheated,where do we head to? Drinking and smoking .And when we start that, there goes some bitches telling around that we’re a pest to the society. From best to pest.
If indeed you have to cheat someone, I believe doing that is equal to selling yourself. And I consider them worst than prostitutes because hey, prostitutes charge for their service , don’t they? You see girls, when guys does the same thing, they’re not looked the same way. People do not charge guys with the same thing like girls. When girls does that, we can call them all kind of names for example slut,bitches,prostitutes and so on. But when guys does that? What can you call them?
The impact when guys cheat and girls cheat in a relationship is entirely different. Guys might get out without having a bad name, but the girl will be carrying the bad name for the rest of her life. I believe by now you would have got an idea on what I was trying to talk about. Girls,cheating on your loved ones is no good. Your future is the one which will get spoiled. I apologize if any part of this article had hurt any of you. But then, do I give a fuck?
Sigh. What an arrogant bastard I can be.
P.S: Please my dear close friends,the topic is about girls and lies. Not Durai and lies. Do not post something about me to ruin my relationship.Nan nala iruntha than onggeleke pidikathe mukavasi nerem. Pathe seyenggepa.
Allah Malik.
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Well said.
dont you just love to start arguments like this durai..hehehe
Thappe engge nadathalum angge nan irupen, athe en thappe ille…hahahahahaha…dv, it’s part of the fun.
topic is getting hot n hot..savadi..
keep it,brader…
Hi Buddies..just wana inform to all my kaiges that pls pls pls watch closely ur girlfriend becoz nowdays girls like “sekejap ada sekejap tak ada”…
The phone conversation
is absolutely true!!!
GF : Hello
BF : Why your hp call waiting la?
GF : Talking to my course mate da.
BF : So long ah.
GF : Amada.Exam is near, so talking to her about tips da.
BF : Oh. Then bla,bla,bla.
The next week:
GF : Ya sayang
BF : Today also your call waiting so long. Who you talking to la?
GF : Talking to my course mate Lalitha da. She was having problems.
BF : Why do you have to interfere her problems?
GF : She is my best friend da. Anything also she will tell me.
BF : Oh, Then bla,bla,bla.
The next day :
BF : You’re pissing me off da. Everyday your call is waiting. And why is that?
GF : I already told you the reason da. Why you shouting now?
BF : Who you talking to today?
GF : It’s Selvi. She was asking about
assignment…
so be carefull….anyhow keep it up the good job Durai..
kidss …..
well, i not only have a word for the writer of this article, but to all of you that agreed with him. First of all, you must be a sad sad guy which, i am sure is lonely, and whom jacks off watching indian actresses. secondly, there is so much sexual tension and confusion within yourself. I’m a guy, and usually, in an indian society, you do not consumate till after marriage. but who aare we kidding here right? if ur dick isn’t pleasing ur women, then i’d say tht she needs another man. so, lay off the women, and look at urself. i think u need very serious help. ur a depressed, molested by an uncle, beaten kid. Stop using the net to find women and be a man u asswipe.
p/s: stop trying to be cute and i see that u try hard to diss everyone to show tht ur strong… but u proved ur weakness by writing such an article. grow up asshole
i too have a gf, and i’m able to please her in every way… why don’t u try tht approach huh? it’ll help u write better.
it’ll also help ur circle of frens to break their virginity asshole
grow up fools… girls and guys are the same… till the day u realise tht… ur nothing but shit…
let me guess, u like slaves better than equaly doing the job too right? u sick son of a bitch
this is my real name, and this is my real e-mail address, if u need to confront me… here is my IC number asshole: (edited – because only a fool publishes his IC no in www, I do not want it to be misused -admin)
i’d love to meet the guy whose gonna contribute to violence against women and be an alcoholic by the age of 32 and disown his kids to support his drug habit
LOL. People are even giving out their IC numbers on my blog, how foolish some Indians can be.
Girls and Lies…Somehow, I think this topic is kind of one sided. I mean, seriously , the topic itself is Girls and Lies. Why associate girls and lies ? Obviously, I am not intending to offend the author of this post or whatsoever. But seriously, I dont think many girls are like this. Or atleast, thats what I think. Boys cheat too. So, its an equivalent phenomena. No point arguing over gender and lies. Because, when it all comes down to a certain point, both boys and girls do it all the same. So people, save your breath and fight over something more reasonable.
Dear Durai,
We can clearly see gender inequality in your write up. Even a girl can write the same thing that you have written above in an opposite way around. If you are going to write something let it be based on evidence and not merely on experiences. Both males and females cheat for various reasons. Therefore, it vital to know the causes for one to cheat or lie. You have to research on the evidence if whether they were really cheating or lieing and also on what are the root cause for them to act out the behaviour “cheating”…You cannot simply throw the blame on anyone, Neither male or female.
Blogging on human personality is interesting however, it is really sad to see an indian to spit on your own kind. Yes the world is full of bad people…, yes people cheat, people lie… but why not try to write on how we can change our community than rather criticizing. And yes please also try not to be a sexist.
You may oppose with my views… However, this is the fact.
You have a vast interest in human and their personality. In my view, you can write your articles based on your experiences however it is not sufficient. If you are going write an article like above you need to at least have some knowledge or research on the topic of your interest..
@Concerned Indian : I’m tired of explaining again and again and again. Stick to the context of the article. There is no such thing as being sexist just because I’ve wrote particularly about the lies girls have done in this article. Of course a girl can write up exactly the same thing, and can I know who’s stopping them?
Can you like put up a title that says “gays and lesbians” and then write up about temples and rituals? You can’t because that’s out of topic(title). Look Sir, it’s easy to ask order me on what to write and what not to.
Why don’t you do the following that you’ve said?
“why not try to write on how we can change our community than rather criticizing. “?
hmmm.. i’m just pointing out a view here ya… I’m not “ordering” you ya, it’s just an idea ..by the way there is no need to be angered over stuff like these….I’m just being polite and saying that we are all the same and rather criticizing each other, it better to find a solution that’s all bro..Chill ya…
P/S -yes i have written blogs on how we can change our community than rather criticizing…
Bro durai,very nice article…..i really support u bro..hope everybody understand bt tiz article..peace…..
Hi Durai
Please tell me bout it!! I had a friend who does this n i will become her victim most of the time. She will ask me to cover for her whenever her bf ask me. I have to lie to him saying that she been talking to me. I felt bad..Not once but all the time so I gave up!!! and I told her im not gona help her anymore. There is no point you lying to your guy and moreover she was caught red-handed by the boyfriend. I regret for being her friend.
Girls my advice if you enjoy cheating go ahead just dont’ regret if you get caught .. it’s like xtreeme sport. Fun and Dangerous. And guys common cheating is cheating no matter the gender. So it’s not ok for girls but if guys do it wah cool la,
~vishalini jayarathnam~ wat u commented was gd bt nt perfect u c even girls who dont dress exposing tey’r belly,back,knee n etc… in my own experience my luv life was g8 6years since scol 2 Uni ten it l8r on wen i found out the truth i attempted suicide n later i recovered slowly… as u said even if v ask tem straightly n 2 show their hp wat r u trying 2 say… as an expert in IT n electronic engineering do u knw all tiz gadgets has delete func so wat make u tink guys like us even can knw wats the thuth behind coz nowadays even intelligent guys out ter r being fooled up by SOME idiot gals so guys if v cheat tem v’ll b blamed n v do stupid things like drinking,smoking n even suicide bt wat the gals do is juz find another ilichavayan n so on it’ll go n a cycle… yena kodumai Durai sir ithu… neenga kekurathe illaiya…??? I’m sorry no offence guys n gals it’s juz an emotion tats part fr my past…
now, for the rest. what Durai explained was true.. BUT there is a saying, IT TAKES TWO HANDS TO CLAP.. the left hand here is the guys and the right hands are the gals..
not only the girls are responsible for this matter.. if the Dude can give enough love and affection to his Babe, instead of masturbating in the toilet more, that girl wont be chating on him..
and girls, pls learn to trust your man if he is loving and understanding..
true, guys are playboys.. but TWO WRONGS DOESNT MAKE ONE RIGHT, wic i mean by taking revenge on the boys.. and guys, stop your Manmadhan neneps.. i had a few frens (girls)
who gave their body to the guys cos of the promises their “sincere boyfriend” made to them.. in the end, one of them became a local pornstar.. yes.. its true..
Guys: love your girl la bro.. dont ignore her for some other girl.. thats wen the prob starts.. we are not kings to have keeps, side chicks, gundiks and all.. we are common people.. if u hurt ur girls feelings, her frens will have the misconception that ALL guys are screwed up mudda fuckers.. and they will have the playgirl neneps n play a guy.. then the guy’s frens will have the playboy neneps n will play girls.. u see.. the cycle continues.. in the end.. Tamizh culture becomes a massive sex-crazy culture.. and those playboys there.. pls la bro.. we have mothers n sisters.. they are women also.. women are not sex toys la..
Girls: tamil culture is not so open to let you PALAGARAAN with guys freely.. but we allow you to cos the trust we have in you.. dont kill that trust.. if you are looking for a companion, try frenship first.. then consider love.. JUst cos a guy looks handsome or hes richor a big mandai nenepu pundek.. it doesnt mean he weill be with you till he dies.. and wen u meet a dude in friendster or Facebook saying his name is Madhan or has a Simbhu picture.. PLS dont layan that porenboku pundek.. he wants to put his anaconda in your mouth and make a porn movie.. thats ALL he wants from you!
guys, learn to respect women
and girls,
pls be careful..
a guys name wont spoil easliy, if it does also.. he will still get married..
but if a girls name spoils.. gone la.. u will be given a Star-title.. not Idhaya Dhevadhai or Superstar.. but Olumaari and Tewdeyeah.. so jaga2 la..
I”m proud to be a tamil, dont make this tamil society into thevudiya society..
sorry if what i said offended you guys or girls.. thanks for the chance to let me blog here..
SunTannedSuperman04
RESPECT TAMIZH
yes bro ur really correct….no girls type like this playing games with use love the name….