Let’s talk about something very interesting indeed. Ever heard the phrase “Virginity is not dignity; it is just a lack of opportunity”? Approaching it from a humorous way, it contains half a truth. At least I do think so. But if we look at it in a more serious manner, it’s just utterly rubbish. Virginity is dignity! For both guys and girls. Yes, I mean it! All right, maybe for girls only. We guys don’t really care if we’re virgin or not.
See, in this modern world today, virgin or not had always played a good table subject for anyone who has nothing to talk about. It’s quite a serious matter. For the Indians, it’s life. Indian movies would have given you an overall view of how serious virginity plays a part in our life. Yes, just take a look at a few rape scenes in the movies and you should get an idea of what I’m talking about. I mean they don’t actually rape there. I mean a guy fully dressed will jump over on top of the heroin and the only thing he will be able to pull out is her sari. Next, he will pull her to bed and all the time he will be attempting to kiss her while she tries to avoid left and right. And poof, few minutes later, the rape is over. She will be without sari and the guy will feel satisfied. One month later, she will be pregnant. How did the fucking sperm got through anyway ay? I mean, you just bounced on her fully dressed, didn’t you? This girl’s whole family will be cursing on her asking who did that to her. She lost the virginity. The whole family will be crying. And she hangs herself. That’s Indian movies.
All right, leave Indian cinemas aside. Virgin from human’s perspective explained in layman term is you’ve not had sex at all and thus you have not lost your virginity. I believe all of us are aware of this fact and if you don’t, then I say you’re a gay. Next, virginity in Indian culture plays a very big role. I’m not denying the fact that it plays good part in other culture too, but as I said earlier virginity is regarded as life in Indian culture. In this modern age where everyone screw’s anyone like nobody’s business, does it really matter?
Again, I would be a centrist and thus I do not want to say it is wrong or right. For me, it is all up to the individual. But you know there are some guys in this world who thinks they should only get virgin girlfriends. The girl he is going to marry must be a virgin. But the question is, are the guys virgin them self? If you yourself not virgin in the first place, how do you expect your girlfriend to be virgin then?
You’ll be hurling thousands of points that she is a bitch and so on and had slept with other guys. But you have forgotten a simple point; she loves you at that moment. She loved someone else previously. Somehow, she had sacrificed her virginity. If you say you love her, then love her heart. Why do you care what’s inside the **ssy? There might be thousands of reasons why she had lost her virginity. I would say most probably because of the previous relationship. Behold guys; I’m talking about the good girls here. I’ve known and seen a lot of good girls who had been in a serious relationship before this and they’ve got cheated. It happens, but that’s life, isn’t it?
You can’t blame the girl or bring back the virginity. You’ve screwed so many girls in your life yet you claim that you want a virgin girl when you marry? I say fuck you. Lucky you if you got one virgin. But if you do not, then live with it. Love is not at all about virginity. There is a zero percentage of similarities. Love and virginity do not relate at all with each other.
Once this guys finds out that the girl they love is no longer virgin, there goes their relationship down the drain. When asked why, she is not virgin. See, when you start out a relationship, do you drop down her pants and check out if she is virgin or not? No. Or do you bring her for medical check up and see if she is virgin. No either. After you’ve fucked her, then you leave her claiming that she is not a virgin. Why that way?
Being open in a relationship will help to solve this kind of problem. Usually couples do not open up to each other and talk. But then, it depends on the persons understanding level if she or he can take it to listen to their past. Everyone would have had breakups and bad relationship in their life. But that is past. Once they come to you, do not act up like someone haven’t touched your dick and had locked it up with a chastity belt ever since you’re born. Past is past. And talking about it is not going to help. So why so much fuss?
Hardly there are people in passionate and loving relationship nowadays with all kind of cheatings going on. And now another one, he wants her to bleed. What the hell guys? Buck up. Let me give you a scenario. You’ve got a girl who is sexually arousing you. She happens to be your neighbor. You’re not very much interested with her other than sexually. Wouldn’t you fuck her? Please don’t tell me that you will be advising your little john to calm down and hold on till you get married, would you? No, you won’t. You’ll be in her bed the next minute. Because we’re humans. And the moment you have done that, you’ve lost your virginity, my brothers. So, stop bothering your girlfriends or being choosy with your girlfriends if she is virgin or not.
The problem for girls is they can’t find out if a guy is a virgin or not. That had worked as an advantage for us. We can always say that we’re still virgin after having sex. But, if you’ve got guilty conscience, that will help you to judge yourself my dear brothers. Blaming the opposite sex that they’re not virgin and thus rejecting them is old Indian movies.
Again this post is not meant to encourage us to have premarital sex or lose your virginity as soon as possible and it will be all fine. That is not the point. It is about guys who do reject woman because of their virginity status. As much as possible, woman should anyhow try to protect their virginity, because it’s just once in a lifetime. For guys, we’re virgin all the time.
The moral of the story is virgin or not should not play a part in your love life. Go for her heart, not the bleeding part.
P.S : Please forgive me for the writings in this article which might be sensitive to some girls. It’s just the way I convey my points. I have no evil intention and therefore read the article for entertainment and take the message behind it seriously. I do not entertain personal insult to me thus save your time by not typing anything with that intention.