Today I will come up again with a controversial article which will highlight the sufferings and humiliation some humans face all along their life. Whenever I talk about this kind of topics, I expect everyone should see the things from my point of view before giving yours. You should look at why I wrote the way it is before you look at it from your view.
The only gender that is acceptable in Malaysia today is male and female.Whenever we come across the confusion of the gender, it often becomes a laughable matter. It is a normal occasion that some of us will stumble open this kind of people who is kind of confused about their own gender. See, every human being is fated or ‘designed’ to live the way they’re expected to be. If one is fated to be bapuks,he will be one.Or shall I say he will be she?
If you’re still left in the dark on what I’m trying to talk about today, it is all about bapuks. Usually in Malaysia, we call them ‘bapuk’, ‘pondan’ , ’9′ and so on . There are many ways of calling them. But all is just certainly for an insult.The reason why I wrote this topic today is why we, always have this feeling of trying to insult this group of people who I consider born with unbalanced hormones perhaps. I might not be very good in describing on why this group of people become the way they’re and so on from a scientific view, but in layman term I would certainly try to defend them.
It is all common and natural for us to see this bapuks on the street . Heck, even in my previous working place , there was plenty of them. It is not their wish to be that way. They are sometimes forced to live that way .A lot of things can influence how they became the way they’re,such as hormones imbalance, family upbringing, surroundings, so on and so forth.
We , as we describe ourselves, think our self to be perfect.We’re either male or female. We’re nothing in between. What it feels like to be in their world? How much torture do they have to go through?
Why am I calling our self to be torturing this group of people?
Let me describe further.To start off, let me give you a glimpse of who are this people from factual words.
“Someone who dresses in the clothes usually worn by the opposite sex. Transvestites may be bisexual, heterosexual, or homosexual ”
All right, enough about that. Now, whenever you see this bapuks on the street, what would your immediate reaction be? I will take it from Indian point of view.
“Macha, bapuk da dei. Angge pareh”
“Ingge parrah dei, bapse”.
So, there we go looking one kind towards them. See, in my previous office, this bapuks are not even allowed to go through the woman or mans toilet. They will have to go all the way down to the ‘Disabled person’ toilet to finish their ‘business’. Even in toilets we’re not allowing them, how are we going to accept them in our society?
Whenever we see Indian bapuks, it is the peak of the event. We hurl abuses and a lot of things towards them. We think we’re greater than them. We smile gleefully making fun of them.We consider doing that as normal.See, if you hurt your friends feelings, maybe you would go on and ask for forgiveness and so on. That consider yourself as a person with a kind heart. But what if you see this bapuks, will you think twice to make them your humor of the day?
Worst case scenario would be if we’re in a group of friends. We might be teasing and hurling abuses towards them without any mercy towards their feelings. We feel good by making them the joke of the day, but have we ever wondered what would they feel like?
I’ve seen like Indian girls describing this bapuks as being the pest of the society and so on. They’re a disgrace to how we’ve living the way it is now. How do we take them as a disgrace?
Anyone who lives the way out of the norm is considered a sinful and a disgrace to the society. At least that’s how we think. While Indian girls giving out blowjob is not considered sin by the other Indian girls,bapuks working as a prostitute is a disgrace to the society. I’m not denying the fact that prostitute are disgrace to the society, but why only categorize bapuk prostitute as a disgrace?
I was not given blowjob by any bapuks for me to write this story about them hence save your time to relate me with them. I just wonder how come after all this years, we still have the mentality like how or forefathers had like decades ago. Why all the hoo-haa of seeing this transvestites?
So what if they’re like that ? Did they come to you and disturb? They’re comfortable the way they’re living . They’re comfortable with the way they lead their life. Why so much fuss about a simple thing than can be simply changed by changing your mindset?
Even parents are no better in this, whenever they see this bapuks they burst into laughter and teach their children that it is a bapuk thus they’re supposed to be categorized into laughable matter.Poor mentality.
See, nobody is born perfect. We,most of us who think we’re born perfect, are not in reality.
We’re born with perfection outside ,but we’re full of defects inside. Change.