Virgin

I’ve been away for a week now and it feels good to be back. Hopefully everyone is fine and had enjoyed your Deepavali celebration. Since it’s been a week, I wrote up a long article.Please read the whole article to grasp the meaning.

I’m going to treat you with yet another Friendster story invented and directed by another Indian girl I believe. You see, I’m the average Machan out there and so are you. We are all the same and equal, at least that’s how I believe. No one is superior to the other and what is possible for one would also be possible to the others if he is willing to achieve it.

That previous few liners was some pre-advice as usual.

Friendster yet again never fail to amuse with facts and facts and so much of facts that barely I have anytime to go through it all. But sometimes, it just becomes so obvious when the same topic is reposted like a hundred times by the same Meenachi’s and Kamachi’s. Before that, I would like to make my stand clear that my full time job is not going through each and every bulletin post and all this checks are done randomly from time to time and yes, they’re reposting the same shit again and again.

See, spreading awareness is really a good thing. I would applaud anyone who initiates such a move. If you want to reduce the amount of Indian girls fucking around, you can do quite some things. Perhaps you yourself can stop screwing those Indian girls who comes to you, why not, don’t you think it helps? It definitely helps .Straight to the point. Creating awareness has it’s own style and depends on what are you planning to make your initiative successful.

But creating a fucked up love story and putting a doubtful statistics would definitely not leave my attention aside. I’ve seen this post few times and I believe you would have seen it too. Now, this below bulletin post was originally intended perhaps to create awareness amongst Indian girls that losing virginity is like losing your life. Can you imagine that? While we are trying to say that virginity is a small portion in life and do not inter-relate with love, there we have few intellectual sexual divine expert Friendster Meenachis trying to educate that virginity is life.

This story would perfectly suit during my grandmother’s age. When if you even kiss a girl the whole village would come out whacking the shit out of you. Nowadays, during sex they’re even taking home made porn out of it. Do you really think stories like below would create awareness or more worries in the mind of Indian girls?

But what exactly is the story? Time for some bashing. The original article would be inside the grey boxes and it was not changed at all I wanted to make it ‘fresh from the box’ style. I would counter-post the original post.

Love may seem very convincing till one day he comes and say…i wanna have sex wit u. she says no. he then plays his normal game..” u don trust me rite…u dont love me rite…then she cries n says..’ no dear i Love u the most in this world, i’ll do anything 4 u just dont say like tis anymore please… she agrees to it just 4 him. after everyting is over…she sees alot of changes in him. not the way he used to love her. She gets very hurt but couldnt do much…she offered herself to him so she’s afraid to loose him…sometimes he treats her very well but its only 4 i reason…’can we do it again?’ she had nochoice…it goes on 4 a few months andhe finally says…’ i dont think its going on well…i’m interested in someone else’ im sorry” n he walks off…..she cries alot for a few months then the lonely soul becomesweak. her life is ruined, she changes alot. she sleeps wit every guy she get into a relationship wit….and the
same things happen. no good guys willing to accept her because she’snot virgin anymore…and finally she starts to become someone very cheap…..89 .72% of our todays indian teens are destroyed because of sex. Both are to be blamed. they failed to understand wat is love.

Ladies and gentleman, I would very much agree with the article from the beginning but somewhere in between it seems to be quite funny. First of all, this kind of sentimental fucked up story is really a no-no for today’s teenagers.

To make it far more interesting, I’ll make a role play of the first part.

Second of all, No guy will ever come to you straight and tell something like this :

Kamachi (GF) : Hi da.

Durai (BF) : Hi da. I love you. I want to have sex with you.

Kamachi (GF) : No da.

Durai (BF) : You dont trust me da?

Kamachi (GF) : *crying. Ok da. I love you. Don’t say like that. We can have sex.

Ah.ah.ah.ah.

Few weeks later….

Kamachi (GF) : Why you change di da?

Durai (GF) : I must change da. I can’t be wearing the same cloth again and again.

Kamachi (GF) : Joke ah. You hurt me a lot.

Durai (BF) : No da . I’m normal.

Kamachi (GF) : Come we have sex.

Durai (BF) : Ok da. I love you.

Ah.ah.ah.ah.

Few months later…

Durai (BF) : Hi da.I’m interested with someone else da.I’m sorry.

Kamachi (GF) : *crying

Another few months later …

Muthu : Kamachi, come we sleep.

Kamachi : Ok da.

Mani : Kamachi, come we have sex.

Kamachi : Ok da.

Ragu : Kamachi , i want sex.

Kamachi :  Ok come.

Do not misinterpret me of making fun of something very serious. I understand the seriousness of the issue. I made a role play in a word by word interpretation. Blame the original author for writing something this stupid.

Now, to the point. What is the relationship between love and virginity here? Why do you have inter-relate both again and again? It’s too separate things. Whether the guys love you or not, whether you’re willing to sleep with him or not, is entirely up to you.

How many of the married girls today are virgin? Does that mean girls who lose their virginity must have sex with every other guy she has relationship with? Are there any rules for it? What the hell. I seriously couldn’t understand the logic.

Back to the article , things seems to be funny when it goes to the part “she becomes a weak lonely soul”; now tell me, I agree if someone cheated you , you might end up being a weak person. You might be down mentally for a few days or weeks perhaps. But again what’s with the part “she sleeps with every guy she gets into relationship”? Girls, when you know that the previous guy had cheated you, then why the hell you have to get into another relationship?

‘Fucker Durai, don’t you dare ask reasons for love. There is no reason to love anyone or getting into relationship. I need someone in my life. I need someone to share my laughter, my cries, be part of me, says one Indian girl” .

Ayoyoyo , thangachi, hardly there is anyone to share all that things with you nowadays la. Which decade you’re in? This ‘I want to share my panties with my bf’ sentiments all is like love 50 years back. Sebelum Merdeka.Sekarang takda.

Now , epeda hole kadeikum, epeda olle edekelam nenekire kalem.

The point is; Girls, there is no reason to sleep with everyone you get into relationship with just because you’re no longer virgin. I know you don’t do that anyway.

And this below additional part comes as an extra icing in the cake for me.

ask tis questions to urself
1.have your partner ever asked u to have sex?

2.Have he ever touched u the other way?

3.Is there any changes in him after sex?

ur the most luckiest person if your ans is ‘NO’ and its yes…ask urself y? n blame
urself!

to all girls n boys, love is not about sex. If u really love a guy c if he can ignore love till ur married. tats
1 thing only good guys can do. NEVER FALL ANY sWEET WORDS! u wont wanna know hows ur life if u make a mistake.

Loose your virginity only to your husband. only he deserves your love.not a bf wo promises to marry u.
Hope you girls and boys learn someting from this!
Life is a journey, not a destination

Aha, I’ve asked myself.And I would be glad to answer the question.

1. I bet most of us would agree that your partner would have asked this question to you.

2. You mean ‘sodomy’? Goodness.

3. Changes after sex? Tired perhaps and of course ‘john’ is back to normal size.

Yes, yes, you’re the luckiest if you never had sex before. It can be counted by fingers the number of girls who is the luckiest. But what about the rest? Should you suicide because of disgrace then? Because you lost your virginity?

To all girls and boys, enough of this bullshit. Relationship does not inter-relate with virginity. Loose your virginity does not mean the end of your life, and there is no point in looking back. Remember that love is the basis of any relationship, not virginity.

Counter terrorist win!

Girls, am I right over here to say that you don’t sleep with any guys just because you lose your virginity?


27 comments to Virgin

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    Now , epeda hole kadeikum, epeda olle edekelam nenekire kalem.

    noothele ore petci la..kahti pohle..

    nowadays, sex is just one part of love ready..even the guy ddnt do something something..for sure the girl will think paiyan sappi pohle..ithelernthe ehna teriyithe? pannalum tahpe..pannangkittiyum tahpe..

    aven kehtan ishtem irentha kuhde..illelati kudekathe..maire satu..easy wat..ehna solringe durai?

    if the guy asked you “u don trust me rite…u dont love me rite…” counter attack by askin him “you love me or my hole ha?” if he gv sum stupid answer to time evaluate his ‘love’

  • gujubu

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    1st of all its really good to have u back after a looong week. (perhaps)

    “Girls, am I right over here to say that you don’t sleep with any guys just because you lose your virginity?”

    u are absolutely right in saying that. cant agree more.

    being a girl myself, i fell for this stupid trick “once upon time”. but thats not who i am. u cant judge someone from an “incident” i’d say which happened.
    as u move on, u tend to be more mature and the people u befriend will also be of the same wavelength as u are.

    if the girl CHOOSES to sleep with every other guy she has a relationship with, then its actually her choice. she doesnt value two shit about her. Learn to love yourself as well as respect yourself before u expect someone else to.

    if u correct yourself, u’ll attract the right people.

    PS: an ardent fan of raged indian and makkez. 1st time commenting.

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    Ithe ore tatuvam…abang durai kaage!super Talaiva!

    Nowdays all payenenge “eppada mandeye kaluvi,pundeye taduvulam” ne wait panikithe irukange.Jangan tertipu..
    Like how abang durai said,kalam mari pochi!! Ellam kasthamum 2 inci oteike than.Lepas tu pechi kurang..but pillenge kude suma ille Keshzone sonna mathiri kalo tak buat apa-apa; sappi than ne mudive paniruvainge.enna kodumei sir ithe!
    Ammadi,summa payen ameythi ya irukan ne nenekathinge,avanekulle ore Bro.Anaconda tudichi kitte irukkene maretherathingge!

  • inba

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    @inba – Semme oru pantun!

    Loose your virginity does not mean the end of your life, and there is no point in looking back. Remember that love is the basis of any relationship, not virginity.

    Seriya soningge bro. Most of the girls who think the opposite should take the above excerpt and post it in their Friendster shoutout.

    Once again, another superb M1 post by Durai.

  • vanie(Anonymous gal)

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    Hey come on lar….Guys just say only!! Let me ask. How many of you guys have girlfriends who are not virgin? Even if you have a girlfren who is not virgin, would sincerely get married to her? The reason why girls are supposed to lose their virginity to their husband is because girls “nafsu” is more than guys. Once she have “tasted” she susah wanna “tahan”! Dats what is meant by when she sleeps with one guy and the guy leaves her she will continue sleeping with other guys. I know some gal will deny this but is the truth as i heard from people who have experienced it. Neway whats is so difficult of keeping the virginity till marriage? Y must be soo desperate? And just to be clear, only desperate bitches will think their boyfren is sappi for not doing anything. Losing virginity might not be the end of life but keeping it is not going to be end of life either.

    Just my opinion…peace :)

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    Girls, am I right over here to say that you don’t sleep with any guys just because you lose your virginity?

    once again saya amat bersetuju dengan statement anda. well done. mistakes can be done once only. then u get experience and learn from it. don keep on doing shit things because u’ve already did it be4.

    tu sahaja setakat ini. jumpa lagi…

    grrrooom grrrroooommm.. MINI COOPER. :D

  • Thumb up Thumb down 0

    Wow….i was laughing more then thinking seriously about what you trying to say. Anyway, i agree with you, however it would be better if girls be more wise not to lose their virginity first of all before marriage.

  • Tic Tac

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    Virginity is a matter of dignity. Its a subjective matter too.I guess it matters more to be a virgin in the heart..Come on lar, how do you define a girl as a virgin and not? Lets say a innocent good girl was raped by a rapist, does that means she lost her virginity? how do u you define virginity?What is virginity?
    Nowdays girls are very active in sports. And being involved in sports like taekwando,gymnastics,cycling, and so forth, the tendency to tear the hymen is very high.Does that mean the girl is no longer a virgin?Accidents and injuries can tear the hymen.So does that mean she lost her virginity?
    I say preserve your moral and dignity;that is virginity for me.

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    hahahahahha well said tic tac.. i agree with u too.. :D

  • OG

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    Lol..cant stop laughing..
    unggala maddum tan eppadi ellam blog panna mudiyum..!

    nice post bro !

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    girl’s virgin , body .

    guy’s virgin , heart .

    which one is harder to be kept , i don’t know , lol .

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    @k3sh : “if the guy asked you “u don trust me rite…u dont love me rite…” counter attack by askin him “you love me or my hole ha?” if he gv sum stupid answer to time evaluate his ‘love’”

    I echo your last line brother, that’s how things should be.

    @gujubu : What a nick :-) What does it mean anyway?

    Experience talks. It’s up to the girls to be wise, you’ve said it.

    And thanks, for being our reader, a sincere appreciation.

    @Raj Dev : Thalaiva, ningge enggeyoh poirevingge…Hehehehe

    @inba : Vairamuthu kalah la bro..aletherevageh pathanggenah..

    @Makkez : Aherrrm…thanks partner, it’s an honor to receive the title..Lol..

    @vanie : I would beg to differ.

    I can accept the rest of your opinion except for the ‘she cannot tahan’ part. I do not think that can be put forward as a reason of sleeping around with many or any out there.

    I have many girlfriends who are not virgin yet I don’t see them screwing around like nobody’s business.

    But I have to agree with you on this :

    “Losing virginity might not be the end of life but keeping it is not going to be end of life either.”

    Cheers.

    @viji : Jangan mabuk ketika memandu..hehehe..

    @Tic Tac : A total summary of truth. I somehow always like the way you put your points forward.

    There you go , listen girls, moral + dignity = virginity

    @OG : Ah, glad you enjoyed. Ennaleyum mudiyum kaigeh Makkez naleyum mudiyum. Yan unggenale kude mudiyum :-)

    @townguy : Simple ah mudichithingge brother. Well said.

  • destinydove

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    wow………. nice blogging n xtremely goog piece of post….. hopefully all indian gals n guys who read this would had learnt sumting….. n change they’re perception about virginity………

  • OG

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    oh yea..makkez maratudden !
    MI ca yo :)

  • Asshole

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    How many bastards gonna show anyone and prove that his wife is a virgin? U think he’s gonna let u see his wife’s pussy? HA HA LOL.

  • elysha

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    Love may seem very convincing till one day he comes and say…i wanna have sex wit u. she says no. he then plays his normal game..” u don trust me rite…u dont love me rite…then she cries n says..’ no dear i Love u the most in this world, i’ll do anything 4 u just dont say like tis anymore please… she agrees to it just 4 him. after everyting is over…she sees alot of changes in him. not the way he used to love her. She gets very hurt but couldnt do much…she offered herself to him so she’s afraid to loose him…sometimes he treats her very well but its only 4 i reason…’can we do it again?’ she had nochoice…it goes on 4 a few months andhe finally says…’ i dont think its going on well…i’m interested in someone else’ im sorry” n he walks off…..she cries alot for a few months then the lonely soul becomesweak. her life is ruined, she changes alot. she sleeps wit every guy she get into a relationship wit….and the
    same things happen. no good guys willing to accept her because she’snot virgin anymore…and finally she starts to become someone very cheap…..89 .72% of our todays indian teens are destroyed because of sex. Both are to be blamed. they failed to understand wat is love.

    strongly agree with tz…
    come on,im 23 n never had a boyfren…
    whr s culture?
    strongly trust in God n as indians v should follow our cultures…

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    bro, u dun try to divert and awaken those gals mind la..i noe la u have a list of stock whom are nt reading ur blog so that u can continue “UP” them. naangelam yenna soap companyku busines kudukerathaa?lolz…just kidding la bro…well, life is all abt trusting..i agree that u might never marry ur boy fren..he might change anytime, no security of sleeping with the same person till u menopause. BUT, if u tink that u had done it full with love and ur “so called” instinct says its worth it, go for it…dont fuck for the sake of fuck..dont just fuck for the sake of sex, make love!

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    @destinydove : Thank you..thank you..

    @elysha : If what you’re saying is having a bf or gf at young age is actually a cultural disaster, I would say no. Life is like that. Even if you opt out to have a bf, or opt in, culture preservation do not solely depend on that relationship matters only.

    It’s just a tiny part .

    @vicknes : Pathinggela bro, eneke ‘UP’ ne solli ‘appeh’ vechithhingge lehhh bro..hehehehe..

    BTW, super line ithe,

    “dont fuck for the sake of fuck..dont just fuck for the sake of sex, make love!”

    Epedi bro,epdi?

  • garnez@psychounit

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    u motherfucka!!!

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    i salute u durai ..for this one… i also lost my virginity to the guy i loved like hell…he abused me like shit …but i neva go n fuck around or became mentally ill like wat u wrote.. ‘sleep with all da guys’….i wonder who’s the one wrote tht piece…ask from the one whom have gone through it…n now let me tell 2 every1 out there…no culture nor religion can help anyone or tell u …dun sleep with the guy u love or u cant live anymore since u broke ur virginity b4 marriage…if tht would have been implemented long ago …now in this world wouldnt have Aids or std’s or even porn’s….

  • Thumb up Thumb down 0

    you know wat ..sum gals out there might learn the other way round from tht piece the crap wrote…more people should read ur blog….keep it up…

  • arasi

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    based on some comments in your blog, i learned that for many Indians drinking is ok, smoking is ok, sex before marriage is ok, gangterism is ok, clubbing is ok…apporom enna preserving Indian culture enu pesarom……….onnum illa preserve panne……

  • shanker

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    Hi, Shanker here

    1) Trust & Love is important.

    2) Virginity is equally important, not only for the ladies, but also for the men.

    If you cannot have discipline or self control on your desire before marriage, do you think, you can have self control after your marriage???

    DO you think your marriage can last?
    It is always easy to say I lost virginity due to some reason and so…….
    Almost all(not all) lose virginity due to pleasure not love……..before marriage…….and then we human can justify anything because we have done it……

    Can all the girls and guys be truthful to their girlfriend and boyfriend about their virginity???????????

  • Rocky Girl

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    OM Nama Shiva…..

    Totally the thing is …In present time..people’s Mentality & physical reaction beyond the curve. No one can guide or teach anybody to move in right track. As adult we should know what we are doing..do not get impressed with Tamil movie stories…now days..cause ALL IS CRAPS…what we do and live that’s the point we have to think that second whether are we on right Track or OUT…

    For me : LOVE is of the feelings which we can gain from anybody…
    Mom, Dad, Brothers , sisters., animals…But went we looks into Life we need someone to share all our P&C..that would be our life partner…

    IF we choose right person to leave for YOU will be happy, or drawn la….
    Loosing virginity in early age, and talking crap on the NET is useless…
    See your self first..through spreading news in NET already became Image Turner in your LIFE.

    Conclusion :

    Virginity NOT only IN our BODY, but it also in our MIND, Thoughts …on the same time not ONLY IN GIRLS but ALSO in BOYS. ?

  • just-saying

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    you keep wow-ing me!

x

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