Thank you. It’s not like you’ve got to waste your precious time trying to defend my post over here .I’m lost of words, but I appreciate what you’ve done here. I no longer wish any of you to participate in this war of words with some frogs that had not come out of their world. You guys understand the message that I’m trying to get across, and I’m certainly honored to see how you even choose to defend me. Thank you again for your views (on me). And I’m sincerely sorry to have dragged you into this.

@Arasi and malaysian666:

You’ve certainly misunderstood a simple sarcastic post of mine to make it a hit by putting in ridiculous thought till one of you even think that my blog is actually shaping up our society today.

I will comment on particular few things:

“Hello brather durai blog is for everyone to read unless i mistakenly didn’t read the message ” only those who carry durai balls can read his blog’.”

Don’t la drag my balls all into this? Why so much interest on that one? Aiseh.

Arasi: “you may wish to instill some good values in them e.g.it is cool to drink and drive, there is a lot of fun n humor in that activity, you can have snap shots of that and let the whole world see, it’s okay you know because this is only one of the vices of human being”

You really infuriate me on this one. Are you fucking blind? How many did I tell you, that it was an accident? I was over the phone (yes, I did drink that day) but didn’t you read the last line that it was because I was over the phone? To top it all, the post was made that way to make it sarcastic.

And I’ve explained to both of you that thing like uncountable number of times. Am I the cause of Indians drinking in Malaysia today?

Are you both that good? Never done anything wrong your entire life? Remember, one who chooses to reveal his real self to the world is much better than one who chooses to fuck every other guy inside her bedroom and chose to act virgin in front of everyone.

“If girls/boys agree with him, he will reply them with a cute mail thanking them, some cute remarks, one smiley etc. But any opposing views will be received with defiance not only by him but also his ardent followers. Well, that much we can’t expect open mindedness from the so called open minded and positive thinking Indians….”

When have I done that? I accept constructive criticism, but not one that accuse me wrongly for what they’ve not understood. You’re a perfect example of that. How come I didn’t see you commenting on the post that shows I’m a ‘good’ guy? Yandee, ene kettevenah akitteh, nee epedi? Utheme pathini ah?

I’m done with both of you too. You’ve wasted and dragged so many of my good friends and readers into this wasteful discussion of yours. I wish you both good luck in creating a blog “that would shape and instill good values” towards our Indian society. If you need a bad example, please link my blog.

@famous amos : Still with the same nick eh? I’m alive? Of course I’m ,babe.

@navin : It’s ok brother..relax panengge hehehe..

I will now lock this topic since many of the good readers and my fellow friends are getting involved.

Yes I do agree with you.ICT and the media has so much of impact on a teenager….certain things are just simply like that….though the chances of every reader of this blog or other abundant blogs in the net may not be matured and might fancy Durai, their basis of thoughts comes from wat they are thought as when they are child..it is nevertheless its the PARENTS duty and OUR duty to educate our younger generation of indians.Police do say indians imitate tamil movie and spoilt by it….they are wrong….the crime rate in Malaysia or other countries is due to poverty and social illness contributed by many factors and not only movies.tamil movies potrays heroism as well villainism…and aso bollywood movies,hollywood movies….they are even worst….why not ask the same question to a other races criminals…watever race one is…if proper education, brought up,peers,community is not blended at the right propotion hence criminals are created.its again the circumtances one commits the crime….though one perceive its right at the moment…they know it is wrong..my point is….lets treat the root canal of the problem…let us educate and get Indians united….lets use this medium to educate indians rather than fighting the never ending battle of ‘cold war’.Looking at the enthuism of you and malaysian666 and malaysian666 thought of setting up a blog…..we shall device a plan to set up good blog topics n lure our indians to share their thoughts…… Have a great weekend too….

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I was wondering why coolvaneegurl was trying to defend the pictures and then find out all the drinking and smoking clips, you take it in a positive way and wow not many people think the way you think.

Do you realise that you and Miss Arasi are the only ones who have a problem with this post? I am a practical person.You youself said it is a matter of perspective. I choose to see this post as a warning to what will happen if you drink and talk on the phone while driving. You choose to see it as promoting beer and smoking. So its not my problem lar kan? Please look back at your comments and make some sense out of it. True, naiyi valay nimetheve mudiyathu and you are a good example. So if you wanna sloth and slumber and be engulfed with your negative perspectives then be my guest. =D

@Arasi: Haaaaaapppppaaaaa! Ungelekku achum purinjethe….very good lar..Just a minor correction. Durai does accept opposing comments so as long it make sense and building not blind accusations.

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If girls/boys agree with him, he will reply them with a cute mail thanking them, some cute remarks, one smiley etc.

Yeah, don’t you think Durai is just so adorable?? Sorry lar, I did not know you were jelous my dear but nevertheless, thanx for finally understanding… =D

This would be my last comment. No point trying to mencurah air ke daun keladi rite folks? All the best to malaysian666 and Arasi for trying to thiruteraning the community by banning drinking for Indians.

@Durai: Konjum carried away achi. Manichirunge =D…..kekeke..

Thanks for your neutral comments. I have a choice of ignoring the whole matter or commit myself to wrap up my points.

I choose the second option.

Yes, Durai is a good and humorous writer. His witty comments and observations are praiseworthy. Hence I expect more from him…than the pose in Kemalangan Ngeri. As a normal Indian, he has every right to drink and drive, have snapshots of those moments but as a blogger esp. one who gives thought provoking articles on the Indian society in Malaysia, he should act more responsibly. How sure are we that the readers of this blog are all matured enough to differentiate between good and bad…I won’t be surprised if some schoolgoing teenagers are viewing this blog and have been ardent fans of Durai. If they fancy everything about Durai, his viewpoints, jokes, overusage of the 4 letter words and etc, the part on him drinking n driving may also get absorbed by their young minds. If police can say that Indian robbers have confirmed that they were influenced by Tamil movies, do we still want to defend that ICT and media have no influence on young minds…besides the above reasons I have no business otherwise to comment in this blog…I rest my case, once and for all.Have a great weekend, all.

I am new to this site…was particularly attracted to this topic which it seems there is a ‘cold war’ going between durai,geetha,arasi,malaysian666.I would like not to judge or comment on any of your views and acts.What might be good for some may be bad for some.

Malaysian666 : Hats off to you…I believe you are strong believer in Morallity and sees Durai’s acts as wrong and promoting alcohol and smoking….Though this may be an act that at the moment deemed wrong and immoral….but he is brave enough to pose this on the blog withot sensoring his face.the moral value that he may want to potray is “Dont drink and drive and never ever drink,drive and use your handphone” and set himself as an examplary”.Our youths are and is surely WISER and Thinks wisely before doing an act.So its not that i am saying durai is right but nevertheless we shouldnt deem he is spoiling the youth.To be spoiled, one doesnt need to see and follow but to act as wat one mind deems is the right act though it may be wronng or is wrong for others.However, the examples that you give…i mean those taken from wikipedia is wonderful…readable and increases the knowledge of those reading this blog.

This is the butterfly effect that transmit from ones action.Durai act and his guts to pose this in this blog has created Malaysian666,nedu,geetha,arasi, me, you and rest you reads this.Thus there is nothing in this world which is totally right and totally wrong.

Durai: You’re brave man.You have the guts to pose the pic and look at the funnier site of life.All who drinks is not BAD and All who dont drink is not GOOD.Thus, this is how I look at you Durai….brave (standing the ground of wat u do as you did it with the present of your mind and heart),smart (the way u blog and your sentence construction), mischevious(driving n talking in the phone)and dare to take the risk.the important thing is be yourself and preach wat ur heart says….I understand that the reason that u posted this pics is for us to look at the funny part of it…throw the bad part of it….

So guys and gals…lets look always at the brighter side of life…have a nice day!

Nietzsche saw pride as an example of a previous, master set of morals that had been replaced with slave moralities. In this, pride was good, because it acknowledges the good and the noble, rejecting the weak and insipid. Without pride, Nietzsche argued, we will remain subservient.

Aristotle identified pride (megalopsuchia, variously translated as proper pride, greatness of soul and magnanimity as the crown of the virtues, distinguishing it from vanity, temperance, and humility.

Now the man is thought to be proud who thinks himself worthy of great things, being worthy of them; for he who does so beyond his deserts is a fool, but no virtuous man is foolish or silly. The proud man, then, is the man we have described. For he who is worthy of little and thinks himself worthy of little is temperate, but not proud; for pride implies greatness, as beauty implies a goodsized body, and little people may be neat and well-proportioned but cannot be beautiful.

Pride, then, seems to be a sort of crown of the virtues; for it makes them greater, and it is not found without them. Therefore it is hard to be truly proud; for it is impossible without nobility and goodness of character.

pride

1 A feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from achievements, qualities, or possessions
2 a cause or source of such a feeling.
3 consciousness of one’s own dignity.
4 the quality of having an excessively high opinion of oneself.
It is how you look at it,Coolvaneegurl look at negative point of view ,i look at positive point of view,so thats the story goes negative mind person always find examples in a negative way while positive way person look at positive way.
I was wondering why coolvaneegurl was trying to defend the pictures and then find out all the drinking and smoking clips, you take it in a positive way and wow not many people think the way you think.If thats the case i don’t mind to think in a negative manner if thats how you look at it.
Like you said ennu ethenne century indians are going to be like this.We are in a fragile world every little things we do its a reflection of our community ,its a question to ask you whether we want it in a positive way or negative way? We can’t afford in a negative way ,our community already in a damaging sitiuation .
Do you think we have a 2nd chance in malaysia i don’t think so ,time is already out for indians so we have to buck up ,we don’t have the luxuries anymore now to teach ,show,emulate and practice positive manner so that in future indians youths see smoking ,drinking, drink and drive as a bad habits.
I’m trying to look at future generation of our indians youngster and you trying to glorify drink smoking ,drink and drive .
Yenne koddumailah you coolvaneegurl ,ennumo solumvanga ethho valay nemethamudiyathey appidithana ?

by the way, what is this matter abt Durai promoting beer or smoking. Which brand? If you believe he can do a good job, then send his details to some cigarette or beer company for advertisements…

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“try to be positive and positive vibration will flow to you and around you and it’s a free of charge to think positive”

We all took this post positively. You and Miss Arasi are the ones who took this negatively. So i think its not wrong to tell you the same thing that you told me. Hahahaha…You’re digging your own grave my friend.

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Judging the way you supporting him,you will listen to people who like to advice but not practice it

You are practicing whatever you say it is? Yen bro ippadi ellam? How about you go and read back you comment and think back what you have said and also think positive after all its free of charge..