Each one of us is unique. Some might have a lot of similarities, but the fact remains that every one of us, vary from each other. Even twins possess only similar physical value, but mentally or characteristics’ might differ.

Just like that, some people might like watching porn. They might allocate 1 hour per day watching porn, to satisfy their hunger for it. Others might like going temple; they might allocate one hour every day to be in temple. Some may even like chatting online, while the rest might prefer talking one-on-one.

Some might like blogging to express their interest; some might like to talk to a friend to express their interest. See, a simple example that shows that each of us differ from each other.

I’ve written many controversial articles bashing how people should behave and how they shouldn’t. If I write something, criticizing a certain quarter of the society on their acts, then it is called my opinion. Or my voice. It is by no means an act of trying to lure them to come to the right way. Whether they chose the right path or not, or whether they choose to listen or not, is their opinion, note, their opinion.

My personal life and things that revolves around me had been the core of how I write. I’ve shared many personal matters about myself, which I can just ignore and continue acting in front of all of you. If I were to portray myself as a person who do not drink, or smoke, or have not done anything bad, then you would have believed that way.

But does that reflect who am I in real life? This blog, the contents, and every word that I write reflect who I am in real life. If this space which I’ve bought with my own money , and something that I felt can reflect my thoughts is controlled, that simply defeats the purpose of me having this blog then. That is to express me thoughts.

It’s funny to think that people actually thought that I might be a major influence in how Indian society is shaped today. How odd and funny, even ironic. How can you not be flattered if someone actually thinks that you might influence some other Indians out there? Am I someone below to be idolized?

Every one of us are sinners. Show me one person who have not sinned their life, and your wish is my command. I’ve done some really bad things in my life, and I’ve done some really good things too. Life is a balance between this two. You can’t be that good ay, if you’re that good, then you’re God. Heck, you’ve sinned even if you eat animals, but how do you survive then? Vegetarian, you’re killing plants, my man. They live too, don’t they? If we try to be specific on what is good and what is bad all our life, then you’re no longer alive! You can go rest in your grave.

If there is no balance in your life, then you’re doomed.

Do you know how easy it is for me to put a blog that shows that I’m a holy person? I can easily choose to cheat you with all my words, as some of you believe that I can construct my words that way too. It’s that damn easy, and I might be a hit amongst the Indian society for helping in to shape up those Indian Machans and Machis.

But the question is do I actually ‘influence’ and ‘shape up’ our society? No, I highly doubt it.

Some of you agree with what I wrote, some of you don’t. Can I actually write something that would please every one of you? I can’t, it’s not within my ability.

The above is how fucking boring my blog will become if I write something that is clean, that’s pure and something that might ‘shape’ our society and also choose not to be myself. We have more than enough blog out there which is helping to shape up the society, but what are the bad things then? Sarcastically writing, I’m trying to achieve my point on what are the things that can land you in trouble, by putting an example of me. Some people can’t just get the point.


I sincerely apologize for those whom I’ve offended, however, by no mean I would stick to a certain standard of rules or follow blogging ethics that I find ridiculous.

Society, Indian girls, Indian guys,Vulgar, Porn, Alcohol, Smoke, Charity, Temple, and everything else, from pure to evil, blend in together, to create the perfect mixture to be poured in If you find the mixture to be highly indigestible, you can always choose to vomit it out.

Last but not least, if you can’t choose to be yourself, what is the point of living then?

P.S: My sincere apologies to my fellow readers and bloggers (ecspecially Vanee,Nedu,Indian,Geetha) whom I’ve dragged into the previous war of words.

23 comments to

  • gowri sangkari

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    ooo..u sound really like a ragedindian…u choose to be you, yourself & you are proud of is a brave thing…so, cheers!!

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    Congratulations! You’re not perfect! It’s ridiculous to want to be perfect anyway. But then, everybody’s ridiculous sometimes, except perfect people. You know what perfect is? Perfect is not eating or drinking or talking or moving a muscle or making even the teensiest mistake. Perfect is never doing anything wrong – which means never doing anything at all. Perfect is boring! So you’re not perfect! Wonderful! Have fun! Eat things that give you bad breath! Trip over your own shoelaces! Laugh! Let somebody else laugh at you! Perfect people never do any of those things. All they do is sit around and sip weak tea and think about how perfect they are. But they’re really not one-hundred-percent perfect anyway. You should see them when they get the hiccups! Phooey! Who needs ‘em? You can drink pickle juice and imitate gorillas and do silly dances and sing stupid songs and wear funny hats and be as imperfect as you please and still be a good person. Good people are hard to find nowadays. And they’re a lot more fun than perfect people any day of the week!!

    Just be yourself Durai. Cheers :)

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    Awwwwwwww..Durai, i just realized that i am listed as one of the “Other Proud Indian Bloggers”!! Thanks alot dude :)

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    No need to apologize lar…It was fun neways…kekekeke….No harm No foul….

    “Unexplained mysteries of Durai Baba-page 23″

    ROFL……Eppadi ippadi ellam?

  • Geetha

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    @Nithz: It felt nice reading your comment. Imperfection gives us space to grow and be a better individual.

    @Durai: You dont have to apologize. You cant satisfy everyone. Some people like to critisize everything. It makes them feel good about themself. Your sarcasm and straight on the face approach is what attracting people to your site. keep it up.. :)

  • MC Pavadai

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    Bro… this is M1 blog lar… we dun have 2 gv a damn 2 anyone.. but the same time u r telling bout ur lifestyle and all tht… its their wish which is wrong n gud 4 them…yaarum nallavangga illa… Every1 had made mistakes in this world… so Bro u dun have apologize all la bro… cheer up… peace… Our hommies support always 4u…peace.. :D

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    “Unexplained mysteries of Baba Durai”..That is so freaking funny..and the ‘Light’ is awesome..real baba-ish la..lolz

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    Well, that is why you are different from the others bro. And that is why deserves to be a ‘must read’ for each and every Indians. Keep it up that way bro. Ellam anthe M1 ode asirvatham.

    Yet another fan of :)

  • Nedu

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    Hater will always be haters la bro..You keep on doing what you do. Your the man!

  • suzie_Q

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    ha..ha.. Baba Durai..I see a money making opportunity here..

  • Arasi

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    ok…you are entitled to your opinion just I am to mine…


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    durai baba its ur blog u write what u want to and how u want to write,if people to like it they should start their own blog write as they like.about influence part,our macha and machi is influenced by tamil movie (according malaysia gov)not u ha,ha,ha. nobody can influence other people, we choose who we want to be.keep ur the good work,write in ur own style cause that ur identity.


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  • Rapunzelle

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    well..thumbs up to u ….neither any human can ‘influence’ nor ‘shape up’ another human and if tht happens it means the end of world…and its 21st century whr ppl are more cut and clear in a blended mixture of good n evil……continue to express ur thoughts the way u want it to be as its urs and sharing thoughts isn’t a sin…life goes on…so chill n open up more delightful issues ….

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    Nanbaneee yenathe uyir nanbaneee..neendanaal uravu ithe, indre pol enduremeh thodarumeehhh…

    Kick-ke irunthathaa athe brandy,
    soore sumbat na edukenum vaanthi,
    atheye overna athe viyathi..
    manaseleh patathey apede yeluthunai nee..
    un varigal aneithum semme katthi!

    sorry bro..soooreleh kavithai elutha ipidithaa irukum…

    Mati Mati M***** Satu!

  • lizard

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    whyte & mackay 13 years glasgow tengah tunggu nie… bila brader…..

  • Renu

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    IF you can’t choose to be yourself, what is the point of living then? I like dis pa.. I will solute U for wht u are… UR being ur self and ur not hiding nything.. :)

  • gujubu

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    I think people who are ‘perfect’ and act ‘holier than thou’ are just downright pretenders. Pretending to be what they are not.. It takes guts to be urself and not give a damn about wat others are gonna think of u.. YOU are beautifully imperfect durai.. Just be urself!!

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    @gowri sangkari : Ah, Cheers to you to Gowri:D

    @Nithz : What a fantastic explanation. I hope it goes into the mind of these ‘ perfectos’. Of course you should be in my list, I’m in your list too:D

    @-coolvaneegurl- : Thank you, ellam unggel asirvathem than Vanee

    @Geetha : Awww, touched yet again . Thanks Geetha.

    @MC Pavadai : Athe sollengge bro…M1 forever…hehehe

    @Vivek : Ah, thanks brother, that is an old picture I did actually. When I was 18.

    @Makkez : Oh Partner, you’re flattering me. Without our partnership, maybe I wouldn’t have gone this far anyway..Cheers for M1 brother..

    @Nedu : Haaa..Thanks brother..Cheers..

    @suzie_Q : Lol. 6969 , there you go. 50 bucks on 4D. Sure strike.

    @Arasi : Of course, with that I agree, but I guess you should understand the context before putting forward ‘false’ opinion. : Ah, thanks brother. That’s far more encouraging.Dont call me Durai Baba bro, aperom athekum ethavethe sollevalegeh p****ngge.Lol..

    @TAMIL CELVAN : Athethan…

    @Rapunzelle : Thanks Rapunzelle, Cheers brother..

    @rujjcoomarh : Nanba, marupediyum ore kavithei..dasyat la ningge..One day brother…one day..nambeh rende perum kalyani beer adikenum…hehehehehe..Maire satu brother..

    @lizard : Ini malam buka machi…

    @Renu : Thanks dear..:D

    @gujubu : My my, thanks a lot gujubu. Beautifully imperfect ah, yemadiyoh..dasyat punya ayat ni…hehehe

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    i TOTALLY get u, bro….. people don’t seem the understand the fact that freedom of thought doesnt necessarily need to translate into your actions… bodoh bettttuuuulllllll!!!!

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    @Rapunzelle : Thanks Rapunzelle, Cheers brother..

    alamak durai …hati banyak sakit la…i am ms.rapunzelle…
    my nick is the cartoon character rapunzel ( long haired woman who was trapped in a tower waiting 4 da prince to rescue her )

  • linda

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    yin/ yang–how you are developing–the best of India’s people!


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