Fucking Young and the Consequences

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Doctor: Vangge, ena achi udembeke? (Hi, what’s wrong with you?)

Meenachi : Ore vaithe valiyah iruke doctor.( I’m having heavy stomach pain doctor)

Doctor: Engge valikethe, period pain ethuvum iruka? Aperom kalyanem acha? (Where is it painful precisely? Are you having any menstrual pain? Are you married?)

Meenachi : Inum ageleh doctor.Doctor, anah august le naneh pregnant ah anen. Anah clinic poi, pills sapthe kalichiten.(Not married doctor. But last August I got pregnant doctor, then I went to the clinic took some pills and had abortion doctor)

Doctor: Ha! Itheyen ipeh en kithe soldreh? (Ha, but why are you telling me this now?)

Meenachi : Ippe rende maasam ah try pandren, aana pregnant ah aagha mudileh. (I’ve been trying for the past 2 months again doctor, but can’t get pregnant)

Doctor: Oh, apeh kalyanem acha? (Oh, so you are married la?)

Meenachi : Innum illeh doctor. (No, doctor, I’m not married)

The above conversation happened almost precisely, and it’s a true story being re-told as it is by Dr. Menaga who also happens to be one of the readers here. I was having a conversation with her the other day when she told me about all this stuff that is happening in her life as a doctor.

The Meenachi above was only 17 years old, old enough only to be in school, and there she was telling the doctor that she got pregnant at 16 and had abortion previously. Now, she is trying to get pregnant again, all of which without getting married.

Almost all the cases that flood the hospital today seem to be amusing when it comes to Indians. Well, you can name it. Indians have the tendency to always make up the statistics, like the odd cases in the hospitals; suicide, accidental pregnancy, fight injuries so on and so forth.

See, I have talked about suicides and why you should not do it in the first place. It’s like we have the world to fuck for, and all you wanted is a single pussy and you died because of her. I’ve had enough talking about these guys, so let’s get rolling about something else.

Can we actually blame the above 17 year old Meenachi? She might be uneducated, or she might just like to have a baby. It is a rule that getting pregnant without getting married is wrong, and it has become like a taboo to everyone. Well, yes of course, everyone feels the urge to fuck, but can’t we guys just apply some common sense and use a fucking rubber?

I mean, get real guys. I’m not going to preach about sex before marriage is a no-no, like those fucktards out there who acts holy when they’re always looking for a hole; but what I’m trying to tell is getting married young or getting a girl pregnant without getting married is just a major headache.

Don’t be stupid.

Yes, don’t be stupid.

And girls, getting fucked young and being pregnant is not something to be proud of. What is this being 17 and already planning to get married?

We’re no longer leaving in the 50’s for god’s sake. 17,18,19,20 or whichever age you might be, if you’re not financially stable, then just don’t get married and ride up in a motorcycle with your ‘macha’, 1 kid in the ‘bakul’, 1 kid in between your ‘macha’ and you, and holding a baby in your hand. Is this how you want your life to be?

Above pictures depicts the same scene in Malaysia

You’ll be practically wasted. Hold on, I’m not against ‘macha’ with bikes getting married. It’s about stability. We do not want to be continuing the same type of generation for another few hundred more years. We’ve got to evolve.

If your ‘macha’ wants to get married, get him stable financially first. Don’t come against me, look around you, how many Indians that you see not having enough money but have enough kids to fill up a fucking bus?

It’s the truth.

Girls, if your ‘macha’ is not financially stable, and all he talks about is getting married, love and bullshit, and every other day he is just fucking you up, then there is no point of clinging on to him. And then when your parents are against your wishes, you go out running away, like how some Indians too.

Love and stuff should be there, yes, but getting married is something else. I see lots and lots; and lots of young Indians girls that talks about love and stuff, when their ‘macha’ is just an ordinary guy working odd jobs and don’t even have enough to fill up their motorbike petrol tanks. Is this the guy you want to get married too?

Your love wouldn’t go anywhere after getting married. Can you eat your ‘love’ if you’re hungry? Can you like feed your children with ‘love’ and expect them not to be hungry? Can you live in a home where the landlord comes practically harassing you every month for not paying up the rent? Can you buy something that you like? You can’t. You just can’t.

And that is precisely the reason why so many parents are so much against love. It’s because of your mistake in the end. You bring up a ‘macha’ who can’t even survive on his own and show it your parents and expect them to accept him? What the fuck?

It’s all your fucking love and affections shit ay. It’s that simple, and that is the thing that will cloud your judgments, especially when you’re a mere teenager. Nobody is against you when you’re in love, but we’re living in a world that needs practical thinking too.

Don’t try to make someone pregnant or get pregnant when you can’t even feed yourself. Don’t just get married for the sake of getting married; the only person who will be suffering in the end is you, when you don’t even have enough money to buy baby milk for your children.

I wish I no longer see Indian families traveling in a bike, and I wish I no longer see Indian children’s suffering because all their parents wanted is to fuck up each other and make it a yearly production. The message in this article will hit the target precisely, because most of you are schooling teenagers or after-schools.

Chase after the money, and then chase after the pussy. You won’t regret my words after getting married.


34 comments to Fucking Young and the Consequences

  • M1 comment! Thumb up Thumb down +7

    Bro, u cant stop ppl from fucking… But u CAN distribute condoms and show them how to use it :P Hahahahahah!

  • amused

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    chinese not indians will top the list in sex before marriage, believe me but pregnancy before marriage, i dunnolah…but why the heroine in ur story worried abt not being able to get pregnant though she is unmarried…why, why?

  • esh

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    nicely put durai…concise and so true

  • SuperMacha

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    Well you have a point though it is distorted.
    Don’t underestimate people.

    Being indian like you and suffering to survive may have brought embarassment to you.
    Did you offer any help to them or did they knock on your door for food or money?

    Your kind of indians are only good for criticising, in fact, love to see them suffer so that you will have something to talk about! Your kind are the narcissistic kind.

    Don’t think that fat wallets guarantees “happily ever after” life.
    Go to the courts and see the divorce rates of indians.
    Most of them are educated fools like you who don’t give a damn to humanity.
    There is no tolerance, responsibility, sacrifice or courtesy.
    In short moral values are so low and that’s why they can’t live together.

    As for the topic, he or she deserves it!
    If they want to fuck, go ahead and fuck till
    your penis can’t lift or the pussy walls hang out.
    Make sure there are no “bastards” born!
    At least register your marriage, so that there are no INDIAN BASTARDS being born!

    Macha..macha..asai vachaann…hahhaha..

  • Mga

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    hahaha, alamaks! durai wat a publicity for me, shy already wei. anyways thanx for bringing this to the limelight on behalf of me. trust me, i could not have written a better article abt this than you. lovely :)

  • Mga

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    @amused – honestly i was thinking and thinking abt why on earth she wanna get preggers before marriage, but i was too irritated with her life story that all i wanted her to do at that moment was to leave! i could have asked if i wanted too, but being in this job for a time now, you just want to be ignorant and not get too personal, coz end of the day they can come up with ridiculous reasons that makes u just wanna bang ur head against some wall for actually asking in the 1st place.

  • SuperMacha

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    Durai : I do not want comments like this. Don’t waste my time banning your nick.Watch your words

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    @Supermacha- Brother Durai was merely asking all the machas to have a stable financial status before committing to fuck, make her pregnant and marrying her in the end. What’s wrong with that?

    Being indian like you and suffering to survive may have brought embarassment to you.

    That is why this blog post stresses that prevention is better than cure. Got it?

  • mr.black

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    good topic durai, marriage is not all about money but u can’t have happily married life with out money, unhappy married life leads to unhappy family which in end the produce kids with all the social prob like we indians having now.so we can make a different by not make mistakes the past generation made that is marrying just because u are old enough to get married even got no jobs.

  • SuperMacha

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    @Durai – So you proved yourself, nothing else than a hypocrite.
    Why the biased view? Why not publish my comment?
    You claimed no holds barred!
    The good doctor is suppose to hold
    confidential information to herself. It’s part of
    work ethics, not make it public and laugh about it.

    @Makkez -I get the gist of the post. You should have credited
    machas who toil against the challenges of life and
    excel. What I meant by challenges in life is
    providing for the family, building the asset,
    educating the children, withering inflation and rising
    cost of living and much more.

    Some think that amassing wealth first then tying the nuptial knot, will ensure a blissful life. That view is what is distorted. I have seen many singles (both gender) who are in their 20s and 30s, very well-educated, highly paid professionals but are failures in their personal lifes. Still trying to gather their elusive wealth, some are drunkards, some have become bitches and yada..yada.. Discos and pubs are their second home.

    The point is, it’s not money but the person determines the direction of their life. If you know how to live within your means, save some for rainy days and sow in investment to reap higher return, you can guarantee yourself a wonderful life. Of course you should have wonderful character too, otherwise no money can buy you respect!

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    @SuperMacha : Hopefully you still remember what you’ve commented in the first place. “The good doctor is suppose to hold confidential information to herself.” The previous would have been enough to prove your point, and you do not have to resort to personal insult, what has ‘panties’ and stuff got to do with this, are you like sick?

    I can see that you can argue very well indeed, so stick to the point, go general, no personal insult. And FYI, the doctor did not make it public and laugh about it, I did.

  • echo

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    @super macha
    just to get it straight…..how is it securing a job and being financially stable before committing to a marriage isn’t good?….i thought that is what the point of this article…with a few examples of which people doing otherwise in the name of ‘love’…
    more like lust driven than love

  • echo

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    (just to add a bit more)
    i do believe that money wont be buying you happiness and bla bla bla…it wont buy you anything but objects….but having a secured position in life then starting a family would be a lil bit easier wouldnt it?…commit to getting stable then commit to getting married…wouldnt that be better?…and yeah…dont think that being in a secured place will curse you to damnation in a marriage…its cause the levity that each of them have…if both tried harder…surely things can go better….better than being married without stability…then suffering….keeping in mind that not all people are able to do that..but those who can….why not?

  • SuperMacha

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    @echo – Your assumptions about my comment are wrong. I didn’t say that pursuing financial stability first, then doing marriage isn’t good or that being in a secured place will curse you to damnation in a marriage! However, I disagree that one should be financially stable before marriage. That’s a skewed view.

    We should consider cases of couples starting nought while getting married. As life progresses, they bravely face the difficulties and gradually uplift themselves, TOGETHER! And I am talking about decent couples who have strong willpower, love, sacrifice, mutual respect and other qualities required for a healthy family.

    As I have said earlier it’s not money but the person(s) determine their path in life. One may have amassed wealth, then decides to get married but realise that they have lost a decade or more of their age(youthfulness). But it’s okay, with money you can regain your youth looks with abundance of money, that’s why gyms are lucrative business, now. How many are seriously working out?

    Who knows, one may have kids going to school when one is at retirement age! But it’s okay, money can replace the father, in case of tragedy!

    Life struggles are not permanent, unless, one choose to be in that state. It takes self-realisation to alter bad to good. Struggles in life is important, it test one’s willpower in extreme conditions. You learn to adapt to situations and recognise opportunity to change for improvement.

    Financial stability may provide you an upper hand over material cost, as far as marriage is concern but wait till you experience emotional cost. Let’s see if your money can buy you peace of mind or end up in pieces of mind!

  • sri

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    SuperMacha, ur argument holds water. however, i think d post is oni targeted to certain quarters. i THINK, all he means is if u cn oni earn to support urself, den dun wish for a kid. if u cn cme out of dt state, den go ahead by all means.

  • Raj_kL

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    WeLL Said Durai.this is realy a nice one.Whatever you said is exactly correct.If the person realy have no money to support himself,then “Kalyana Yenna Kedda”.I support you durai.One should be stable then only think abt marriage life.

    Supermacha:Whatever durai saying,you have to consider with what happening in the current situation.Its abt the macha’s who getting married without proper planning.Its not just like between husband and wife only after marriages.they got to think abt their kids also.How they gonna support them.its not abt supporting their food only,Its abt education.Poverty can only be replaced by a good education.Dont let the kid to be suffer bcoz of such parents.

  • Shaila

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    Very2 interesting topic Durai.
    Nowadays sex is a kind of trend in proving depth of love in one’s love life. It’s getting norm in all races, sadly to say inc our indians too. Since sex is a must then i dont think so they are too stupid not to use any form of precautionary methods…i mean our younger generations are very much knowledgable in this matter compared to the real education they supposed to have…this includes educated and non educated ones. Many college going girls are in and out of clinics for abortions…are they out of their mind or simply they don’t care!

    Getting married knowing you and your partner are stable financially are a relief. I always believe that we must give our children a better life, one step better than our own life. With this nothing else is important, only MONEY. with money you’re free of stress, happy and can live comfortably without any major debts worrying you how you gonna settle it…
    Oh YES Money can actually BUY Happiness Nowadays…

  • SuperMacha

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    I have seen rags to rich and rich to rags.
    Interestingly, rags to rich kind of people could bounce back after a downturn or able to cope with the twist of fate.

    But the rich to rags, are lost in their “new” environment. Grappling and often blaming others for their misfortunes.

    @Shaila – “Oh YES Money can actually BUY Happiness Nowadays…”
    Your perception have equated happiness with cost(monetary). Why do you have to “buy” happiness? Are you incapable of deriving it without money?

    When interpreting don’t take it literally, try to read between the line. I am neither advocating illicit sex nor saying money isn’t important. There are two sides to a coin and so does life or nature, in abundance. Rxplore them from both sides, derive the good values and apply them accordingly into your life. One man’s food maybe another’s poison! :-D

  • SuperMacha

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    Correction: It should be,
    “One man’s meat may be another man’s poison!

  • Rapunzelle

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    Supermacha u have ur own blog ha?

  • SuperMacha

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    Rapunzelle, unfortunately no.

  • Thumb up Thumb down 0

    Bro Durai…Super topic. I can see what you trying to say…
    SuperMacha React to This Supertopic…but, Kinda confuse with this person…
    SuperMacha i wish you to tell ur point of view in short and simple form. then we see how… u mite be the well experienced person i guess.

  • Rapunzelle

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    Supermacha : so y dun u create ur own blog instead n pen down wateva ur trying to explain there in ur own ways.I think u’ll get some attention at ur own blog too..

    Bro Durai : Tis is another best of your articles …cheers.

  • amused

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    @mga- yeah i get it…as a doc, i believe u hv enough on ur plate to handle, why ask for more headaches. thanks for ur reply

  • he-man

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    @supermacha- these statements of yours are superb `Life struggles are not permanent, unless, one choose to be in that state. It takes self-realisation to alter bad to good. Struggles in life is important, it test one’s willpower in extreme conditions. You learn to adapt to situations and recognise opportunity to change for improvement.

    Financial stability may provide you an upper hand over material cost, as far as marriage is concern but wait till you experience emotional cost. Let’s see if your money can buy you peace of mind or end up in pieces of mind!’

    Such profound observations wl only come from an experienced person. i know wat u mean.

    Whilst financial planning before marriage is important, the quantum (hw much of wealth)is a subjective matter. These days ppl spend entire savings to hav grand weddings much of it going to event managers/photo shoots/bridal packages. watch out for this black hole, guys.

  • nantha

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    i agree with your comment brother

    some advice to youngsters please do not cheat each other by telling will marry if had sex
    because after done definitively you will look for new one

    if you really interested in sex please let your partner know about this and go for it…

  • CoolMan

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    Nantha : No one is cheating anyone in sex. Both are having fun.
    There are sex predators out there looking for pussies all the time.
    I will not blame them. It is the girls who are stupid if they feel victimised.

    On the marriage matter, I dont think you need to be financially stable to get married. But you must be mature enough to face the challenges, financial and others.

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    Durai,

    Very well said!!~

  • ApRiL

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    @supermacha…your argument regarding this topic draw my attention & i’m actually impress with you..:)

  • Damienraj

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    Supermacha VS Durai… nicely done…both of your *argument point*s really impressed me and other readers… keep it up :)

    and Supermacha, consider of opening yourself a blog…

  • DarkTannedSuperman04

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    Keep your morale high or USE A CONDOM la!!! STUPID DEGRADING FOOLS!!
    spoiling the name of other Tamizhs only..

  • skygirl

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    DarkTannedSuperman04 = yeah yeah..!!

  • Ash

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    Well said.

    On a slightly unrelated note, my married colleague imparted these sage words to me, “Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty”.

    I totally agree.. =)

  • soloniyah

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    Well said Durai anna..i knw one with the above situation, and he sold one of his baby to his relative just bcz of nt enuf money to tc of their expenses….he sold the last baby….the othr 4 babies are still with him :(

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