Well said.

On a slightly unrelated note, my married colleague imparted these sage words to me, “Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty”.

I totally agree.. =)

DarkTannedSuperman04 = yeah yeah..!!

Keep your morale high or USE A CONDOM la!!! STUPID DEGRADING FOOLS!!
spoiling the name of other Tamizhs only..

Supermacha VS Durai… nicely done…both of your *argument point*s really impressed me and other readers… keep it up

and Supermacha, consider of opening yourself a blog…

@supermacha…your argument regarding this topic draw my attention & i’m actually impress with you..:)

Durai,

Very well said!!~

Nantha : No one is cheating anyone in sex. Both are having fun.
There are sex predators out there looking for pussies all the time.
I will not blame them. It is the girls who are stupid if they feel victimised.

On the marriage matter, I dont think you need to be financially stable to get married. But you must be mature enough to face the challenges, financial and others.

i agree with your comment brother

some advice to youngsters please do not cheat each other by telling will marry if had sex
because after done definitively you will look for new one

if you really interested in sex please let your partner know about this and go for it…

@supermacha- these statements of yours are superb `Life struggles are not permanent, unless, one choose to be in that state. It takes self-realisation to alter bad to good. Struggles in life is important, it test one’s willpower in extreme conditions. You learn to adapt to situations and recognise opportunity to change for improvement.

Financial stability may provide you an upper hand over material cost, as far as marriage is concern but wait till you experience emotional cost. Let’s see if your money can buy you peace of mind or end up in pieces of mind!’

Such profound observations wl only come from an experienced person. i know wat u mean.

Whilst financial planning before marriage is important, the quantum (hw much of wealth)is a subjective matter. These days ppl spend entire savings to hav grand weddings much of it going to event managers/photo shoots/bridal packages. watch out for this black hole, guys.

@mga- yeah i get it…as a doc, i believe u hv enough on ur plate to handle, why ask for more headaches. thanks for ur reply