Valentine’s Day is around the corner, as usual everyone seems to be busy picking up things for their partner. You can see it all around in the shopping centers and gift shops, young guns seem to be flocking in to buy something special for their loved ones.
While you would never see this type of crowd on any other special days, like Father’s Day or Mother’s, it is inarguably the time of the year when most guys gets creative and spend all their hard-earned money(from their parents), into buying gifts for their girlfriends.
Many of you might even be getting ready to propose to someone, someone special you might have pursued relentlessly for the past few months. All the hard work like messaging her every night before you sleep at 1 am to tell her you missed her, calling the pussy every morning to wake her up, spending on her although you have nothing to eat yourselves, telling your friends how lucky you’ve been whenever you’re with her, all those hard work, will only be considered had yielded a result if you propose, and she accepts.
And then few months down the road, you might fuck each other, and then you might encounter some indifference in opinions(which amazingly you did not have at all before you both end up in bed), then finally breaking up and continuing the cycle with another girl or guy. This is what I’m seriously seeing, in most of the relationship nowadays, haven’t you seen this type of things around you? Isn’t this how most relationship is nowadays?
Right, since most of the fault seems to be coming from the guys, let me see if I can summarize something about what you can do and should do when you have a partner or a girlfriend in order to sustain the relationship. This might also help the genuine guys to keep their relationship happy and successful.
This is the universal rule and my personal policy that most guys don’t seem to understand. A guy should never EVER beat a girl. Or perhaps abuse her. Come on guys, that’s the lamest shit you can do man.Why?
The reason is because only coward fucks fight with girls. Only guys who could not fight with another guy, beats a girl instead. If at all you want to fight or feeling like picking up a fight, take a round with another guy. Ace, you guys should really feel shy for whacking up a girl, because only girls fight with girls.
Which indirectly also means, you’re a girl. So the next time, if you want to beat up your girlfriend, go wear a ‘sari’ or punjabi suit, then start beating her. Now, that’s an equal fight. No matter what the reason is, even if she’s having a faulty mouth, you might want to throw in some bad words, but definitely not any physical contacts. The moment you lay hand on the girl who had trusted and got into a relationship with you, you’ve virtually lost your ‘manhood’. Thus, you should cut off your dick.
Guys,this is how you should dress up before you start beating up your girl. Just in case if you still want to beat her.
Do not attempt to fuck her when you have just recently got into a relationship. If you’re into a genuine relationship with her, if possible, avoid sex. Since that will never happen anyway, thus at least don’t start early. Get stable in your relationship, and girls, make sure the ‘macha’ is worth it, or else ask him to fuck the walls instead.
The problem with many young girls nowadays is they spread up their pussy in a few days after getting into a relationship, thus the guys fucks them and get bored, then leave them. How could you evaluate someone whom you have known only for a few days or weeks, if he is worth it to be in bed with or even to spend your life with him? Think.
Trust is extremely important in a relationship. A couple should always have trust on each other, although it may be abused. Stop calling out your girlfriends and finding out where she is every 10 minutes, stop keeping track of her movements and let her be independent.
Do not bind her with rules, the same goes for girls. Do not limit him with stupid rules like asking him to stop his bad habits and so on. If you’ve got into a relationship with a guy although you’ve known he has bad habits, then live with it. Gradually change him, don’t impose rules on him.
Relax and give some space into each other’s bad habits, gradually seek changes. Any relationship will fail the moment the partner starts suspecting the other. Period.
If you’re planning up a gift for her, make sure you buy up something which would genuinely invoke her feelings. Do not buy something just for the sake of showing your material wealth. Buying out a wrong gift for the wrong person is also seriously a turning off point. Get to know her, try understanding her needs, find out her likes and dislikes, then buy out something you feel would best suit her.
If the girl is forcing you up for material gains, then I say seek a prostitute instead. Do NOT cling on to any partner if the other is expecting and draining you out of your money.
I know your intention, but never buy the above for your girlfriends.
Be good with your jokes; make sure you can make your partner laugh. It dissolves any strains or stress in your daily life, and your partner would look forward to see you all the time knowing that you can make her feel happy. Please guys, no lame or stupid jokes. If a girl looks puzzled after you’ve tried to be funny, know that you’ve just done a serious self insult. Change your tactics.
A bad pick up line and lame joke combined with disastrous English. Good example of self insult.
Learn how to do it right, use your environment, things around you, and make up something. Be creative, and unique, it will impress your partner to a great length. Girls’ loves guys who can crack good jokes by the way, will you agree girls?
If you’re not good with jokes, then try coming up with interesting stories. Learn topics that she feels comfortable with, read up or do some research, impress her with your ability of having profound knowledge in a topic she has immense interest in.
And stop having those serious shit face that you have almost all the time like you’re an Indian thug on the loose, which I had figured out most Indians guys have anyway. Stop portraying those serious and furious face that you make up while you’re walking anywhere with your girlfriend, it is freaking lame. Have fun man!
The above, I think, would be important for you to have a good relationship. I’m sure you know the rest of the shit, like being sincere and truthful, and other moral values I hate talking about which you should know anyway. Please do share especially girls and guys(and the married readers too), if you have some opinions of your own. There’s plenty, but the above are my personal opinion based on what’s really happening on the ‘ground’. Good luck!