This is my opinion about relationship during young age, so don’t get worked up if it contradicts with yours.
There are always times when you get raged over something, as much as you want to be practical solving an issue or problem. The past weekend was a busy day for me, and I just had to share with you this story, so that some of you; young girls will learn something from this.
I was in Seremban last Sunday when I received a panic call from my aunty that my cousin sister is nowhere to be found. She had left the house around 8 am on Saturday, and never returned until the next day. Her phone is switched off, and a quick check in her working place showed that she never turned up for work on Saturday. She had earlier claimed on Saturday that she is going to work to my aunt.
She was only 18.
With all the things going on with young girls nowadays, I couldn’t help thinking about the worst. She did not even bring her IC. I concluded she might have ran away from home, or been kidnapped by someone out there. I quickly called my cousin, and asked him to take my aunty to the nearest police station to make a report. Just in case.
After the report was made, and just when the search was about to happen, this girl returned home around 4 pm. My cousin called and informed me. She coolly walked in , and told my aunty that she had went out and couldn’t catch a bus to get back home, so she had stayed over her friends hostel. I asked my cousin to go and see her, and after some whacking from my cousin, she confessed going out and staying with her boyfriend in his hostel. Again, she is only 18.
The boyfriend; 19. Next my cousin called up the guy, and picked the guy up in his hostel, for interrogation; of course. I rushed all the way from Seremban because of this, and I told them not to beat this guy. When I reached, both the ‘perpetrators’ had been apprehended.
Of course, although I don’t beat girls, when it comes to my sisters, although I had always cared about her, this time it was no mercy. This time there was an exception, I beat her because of the following things:
1. For the trauma she had caused her parents.
2. For her daringness thinking that no one could question her and coolly walking inside the house the next day as if nothing had happened.
3. For the future embarrassment she will cause to my family and me if outsiders found out about this things.
4. For wasting my time, energy and money rushing all the way from Seremban just for this.
5. For delaying an article in this blog because I had to waste few days on this.
There you go, equals to 5 slaps I had given to her.
Now let me tell you the most fucked up story in the world. It made me look like a complete idiot listening to this story from the guy. First of all, I did not beat this guy and prohibited my cousin and friends from beating him because this guy was only 19, and this guy do not look like he can last a beating. He was tiny, and looked a complete bekke(lame).I told him that I will practically embarrass myself if I beat him.
I cried listening to the sufferings they both went through one day before. The couple actually went out to Times Square in KL , around afternoon. After watching a movie, they decided to go back. Unfortunately, when they reached Klang, it was already 8pm. Bus to Taman Sentosa(our place) was not available it seems. For your information, there is bus until 10pm. Fortunately, there was bus to go to Sri Muda, which is where the hostel of the guy is located.
So they collectively decided that they’ve got NO choice but to stay over in the guys hostel room.
What happened to your phone?
Battery died. Her phone battery also died.
But why didn’t you call from public phone?
We had no money.
Why the fuck do you bring a girl out if you don’t have money?
Is it right to bring a girl outside at night and stay over without informing anything to her parents or anyone else?
….Wrong…*Silence… A slap and a ninja kick from my cousin who couldn’t hold it any longer.
The rest was history.
See, the only reason the guy was not beaten up beyond recognition was because the fault actually lies within our family. She had the guts to go out with this guy and stay over without informing everyone, now that’s what I will call fucking stupid and pissed me off big time. The parents were the naive type, so they actually stopped us from beating the guy instead of making him a punching bag.
The guy is still studying and gets an allowance of RM400 per month. Now tell me girls, do you know why most of your brothers and parents disallow your relationship at early age?
Because most of you are fucking stupid bringing a macha who couldn’t even buy a meal for him. What crap are you talking about divine love and stuff? How many young Indian girls do we see running away from home every now and then? And why is it all the time when you run away; you actually find an asshole that will practically look like a beggar?
For years, I’ve been against relationship at young age, because you either get fucked and pregnant when you’re young itself, or you run away from home. How could anyone practically approve your relationship when both of you can’t even survive on your own? When you’re going to announce to the whole world that your boyfriend is this and that, make sure you know your boyfriend lives up to your claim.
Your parents raise you up for so many years, and after a few months in a relationship with some kattans out there, you forget your parents. You think your love is the best thing in the world. Remember that your love will not feed and pay your rent. Or buy you a car. Don’t come up with me with all the romantic stories in the world on how love had changed someone’s life. How many of you know people who had been in a relationship from a young age and survived until they get married? Isn’t it only a handful? The rest are fuckups.
If you’re indeed going to find a guy, look at him and think about your parents. Will they approve this guy? If you think they won’t approve this guy, then both of you do something in your own life first then go on with your relationship. Do something your parents will be proud thinking of you. And start respecting your parents!
A perfect wrong example of respect towards elders.
Don’t find any rempit on the street, and bring back home and announce he is your life partner. Why waste your life like this? Which parents will be proud to have a son in law like that? So many young girls today start having relationship when they’re schooling and college, and so proud announcing it all over social networks, and when you see the guy; fuck man, you will know that this is a goner. Fucking study in your school, go to your college and get your certifications right, then start thinking about relationship. Get your guy right, make him someone your parents will accept and be proud of.
Keep your relationship if you have any; professional. No need to open up your pussy for your boyfriend. If he says dialogues like you don’t trust him, show your middle finger and ditch him. Trust in relationship is not defined by spreading up your pussy.
Now when some of your girls blame your parents and brothers for not approving your relationship, you’re seriously a stupid cunt. Why would your family be against your relationship if you find the right guy? Think.
Sit and think.